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How often do you lie?

, mm? :)
Отправлено: Jul 2 2007, 13:37
as for me.. well, i don't like lying, but sometimes it's necessary.
Отправлено: Jul 2 2007, 16:29
everybody lies!!! and don't deny))

personally I try not to lie at all. I hate 2 do it actually. But i lie only in such cases if the truth isn't gonna hurt someone or their feelings...

Hate liars!
Отправлено: Aug 11 2007, 11:51
How often?.. Well, actually I do not count such things. It could be quite hard, you know %)
Отправлено: Aug 11 2007, 18:44
Hmm....to tell the truth I lie every day. It doesn't mean that i lie a lot. it may be a little lie about my lessons, my marks, my restday. it's not a lie that hurt my friends, but it's a lie ;) And as a rule, everybody lies often, but don't like to tell about.
Отправлено: Sep 26 2007, 10:46
Well, i definitely lie more than i'd like to... :) The worst thing is, that there are not "smaller" or "bigger" lies... Spade is always a spade, isn't it? :)
Отправлено: Sep 26 2007, 15:53
well, I never thought about it...
But now I think I lie more then it's necessary. I always have an awful feeling when I lie :-X
Отправлено: Jan 2 2008, 00:28
everybody tell lies...sometimes a person doesn't even realize, that he is speaking lie...I think it is so, because it is easier to tell lies sometimes, and sometimes it is even necessary...
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Отправлено: Jan 5 2008, 09:17
lie - just more attractive truth+))
so..every day, unfortunately
Отправлено: Jan 6 2008, 11:33
Цитата (Lovenkrantz @ Sep 26 2007, 10:46)
The worst thing is, that there are not "smaller" or "bigger" lies... Spade is always a spade, isn't it? :)

Abstractly, you`re right. But attitude towards a liar depends оn situation, wich is always different. We саn offense, suffer, ignore, forgive, revenge. We саn be eager to be deceived.
Цитата (The Unforgiven @ Jan 2 2008, 00:28)
sometimes a person doesn't even realize, that he is speaking lie...


Suppose, it is really so, that is why it is hard to say how often we lie. The proper question is how often we lie with intention (good or bad)
Отправлено: Jan 8 2008, 14:19
sometimes, but not for everything)))
Отправлено: Jan 13 2008, 14:08
When I really need I lie. But if it is necessary, I can lie... a bit)))
Отправлено: Jan 13 2008, 14:14
of course sometimes I lie.But not so often)
Отправлено: Jan 13 2008, 14:53
American scientists found out that a person lies 100 times day! (I don`t know how they did it)
Отправлено: Jan 13 2008, 19:08
Цитата (Мэрилин @ Jan 13 2008, 14:53)
American scientists found out that a person lies 100 times day! (I don`t know how they did it)

100 TIMES?! It can't be becouse it sounds like unreal...
Отправлено: Jan 15 2008, 10:46
Probably the matter is that these scientists count such things as answering "good" the question "How`s life?" and etc . But certainly we can`t consider this an intentional lie. We are not lie-detectors. But it isn`t true often. There can be a big deal of such examples.
Отправлено: Jan 19 2008, 20:40
*innocently* all the time ^_^
Отправлено: Jan 20 2008, 15:08
We, Ukrainians and Russianmen, do not lie so often as American people))))
Отправлено: Feb 15 2008, 20:07
Yes, that`s right!!! May be sometimes I lie... a bit))
Отправлено: Feb 15 2008, 20:31
Цитата (Soul_Of_Fire @ Jan 20 2008, 15:08)
We, Ukrainians and Russianmen, do not lie so often as American people))))

what an interesting opinion... why do ya think so? give us strong arguments))))
Отправлено: Feb 17 2008, 14:01
every day
Отправлено: Feb 17 2008, 20:15
Why do you do it so often?... Although I do this not less then you... and sometimes it helps me...
Отправлено: Feb 18 2008, 09:04
how to say...I love white lie
Отправлено: Feb 20 2008, 22:12
Lie in a name of the truth?)))
I lie very often...but prefer to say that it's only my creativeness
Отправлено: Feb 24 2008, 10:42
:D
I lie, when it's necessary for me to hide the truth, and it isn't possible to use half-truth as a cover, for example. When it's profitable to lie... =drag=
Отправлено: Feb 25 2008, 13:51
I don't tell the truth everytime. It's boring..
Отправлено: Mar 21 2008, 23:22
I don't like lie. But sometimes I do it. Only when I really need it ;)
Отправлено: Nov 20 2009, 23:09
Every day =drag=
Отправлено: Nov 20 2009, 23:11
always
Отправлено: Nov 21 2009, 08:29
Every day
Отправлено: Nov 27 2009, 16:10
never!!! i'm trying
Отправлено: Jan 1 2010, 13:44
Very often
Отправлено: Jan 1 2010, 14:05
Very seldom
Отправлено: Jan 7 2010, 14:09
I try to don`t lie.
Отправлено: Jan 7 2010, 22:56
Not so much...........but who does not happen... :(
Отправлено: Apr 8 2011, 18:46
Sometimes O:-)
Отправлено: Apr 16 2011, 03:00
I lying often to avoid shame, embarrassment, or conflict. I often lying to protect friends’ and family’s feelings. I feel lying in some circumstances is not only acceptable but desirable. White lie.
Отправлено: Apr 22 2011, 13:48
sometimes.. =shy=
Отправлено: Apr 30 2011, 09:20
everyday and all time))))) ^_^
Отправлено: May 2 2011, 16:27
Not very often.
Отправлено: May 2 2011, 20:24
I'm lying when it is necessary
Отправлено: May 21 2011, 15:58
I try don't lie, but sometimes it is necessary %)
Отправлено: May 22 2011, 09:22
hmm ... I often lie only in school, teachers when they ask why I had not done homework)
Отправлено: Jun 18 2011, 19:55
a lot :lol:
Отправлено: Jun 18 2011, 20:16
never of course :skype_angel:
Отправлено: Jun 21 2011, 07:06
every time, when I say "I am finishing stop doing something" xD
Отправлено: Jul 21 2011, 08:06
- Have you called him?
- Yes, of course!

Is it a lie? I don't think so. I'll call him up in a three minutes. =smile_cry=
Отправлено: Aug 14 2011, 21:02
All the time. Even now =)
Отправлено: Aug 15 2011, 05:51
Rather often I suppose. Not neccesarily the lie is whole thing, it is to emphasize the important issues. In general there is no pure truth or lie it's always mix and who knows where is the limit, when you consider it a lie.
Отправлено: Aug 17 2011, 12:07
lie?
Not often
But I believe that if a lie is the good, you can tell a lie
Отправлено: Sep 15 2014, 10:04
I used to lie to my parents a lot. Especially when their rant about how I have to get good grades and don't ever miss a single class in the uni. I've ditched 30 to 50 percent of my classes at the 3, 4, and 4,5 years. I just stopped seeing sense in going there.
They are still people I lie to most. They are very close-minded and won't understand a lot of things.

Other then that, I try to avoid lying.
Отправлено: Sep 16 2014, 02:38
Цитата (Ами @ Sep 15 2014, 10:04)
They are still people I lie to most. They are very close-minded and won't understand a lot of things.

Are any of them your friends? Because if I have close-minded friends, I try to keep a distance.
Отправлено: Sep 16 2014, 07:21
Яна, no, I meant my parents. They think I have to live like them and behave like they did 30 years ago, so thats causes problems.
And whatever I do, its not enough for them. So I try to avoid difficult topics alltogether, so I don't have to lie, or feel guilty ("for letting us down"), or feel uncomfortable.

And I'm probably the most close-minded from mey friends (beside my boyfriend).
Отправлено: Nov 16 2014, 07:22
Probably, often.
But I do it for purpose - not that I'm so jealous or hurtful)
Отправлено: Nov 22 2014, 02:33
Донни, what purpose could that be?)
Отправлено: Nov 22 2014, 15:16
Обжорство, if I want somebody feel not so depressed, for example.
Отправлено: Nov 22 2014, 17:33
Донни, I agree. Sometimes we might hurt someone we love.
Отправлено: Nov 26 2014, 17:39
If you think you don't lie, you already lie to yourself)
But there isn't lie or truth in a world of words. Truth can't be expressed in words, i think
Отправлено: Nov 27 2014, 21:14
Пэйджик, but then, later on, I would say that my previous words - it was such a lie. And a person would except it easily.
Отправлено: Aug 12 2015, 14:56
Цитата (Anorexia Nervosa @ Nov 26 2014, 17:39)
If you think you don't lie, you already lie to yourself)
But there isn't lie or truth in a world of words. Truth can't be expressed in words, i think


- I have two hands

There you go. A truth with words, that isn't so hard.
Отправлено: Aug 14 2015, 03:20
Santjaga not flet, what about lying to yourself, what kind of person you are?)
Отправлено: Aug 14 2015, 05:54
Цитата (закохана в Грифіндор @ Aug 14 2015, 03:20)
Santjaga not flet, that about lying to yourself

Meh, he didn't express quite clearly then.

Цитата
what kind of person you are?)


Selfish liberal with sociopathic tendencies and notes of high self-esteem who is in constant need of arguing.
Отправлено: Aug 15 2015, 01:33
Oops, it was a typo.
Цитата (Santjaga not flet @ Aug 14 2015, 05:54)
Selfish liberal with sociopathic tendencies and notes of high self-esteem who is in constant need of arguing.

Arguing or communication?...
Отправлено: Aug 15 2015, 03:06
Цитата (Santjaga not flet @ Aug 14 2015, 05:54)
Selfish liberal with sociopathic tendencies and notes of high self-esteem who is in constant need of arguing.

bitch


  !  

Nooo, that's not how we communicate here! Please don't use such language again.

Отправлено: Aug 15 2015, 07:18
Цитата (Guffy @ Aug 15 2015, 03:06)
bitch

That's what she said
Отправлено: Aug 15 2015, 07:19

Цитата (закохана в Грифіндор @ Aug 15 2015, 01:33)
Arguing or communication?...


Arguing
Отправлено: Aug 15 2015, 17:44
Цитата (Santjaga not flet @ Aug 15 2015, 07:19)
Arguing

What's the point of arguing anyway?)
Отправлено: Aug 15 2015, 19:31
Цитата (закохана в Грифіндор @ Aug 15 2015, 17:44)
What's the point of arguing anyway?)


Winning, making a point. Lots of reasons
Отправлено: Aug 19 2015, 15:55
Цитата (Santjaga not flet @ Aug 15 2015, 19:31)
Winning, making a point. Lots of reasons

so it means you don't have these things in real life and doing that you try to get satisfaction with arguing. I'm right, aren't I?
Отправлено: Aug 19 2015, 19:10
Цитата (Guffy @ Aug 19 2015, 15:55)
so it means you don't have these things in real life and doing that you try to get satisfaction with arguing. I'm right, aren't I?


Which things? Victories? Not really, in fact i got used to win too much, now now it is constant pursuit of victories.
Отправлено: Aug 23 2015, 13:06
Santjaga not flet, hmm, you're getting more interesting. Feel free to share your victories.)
Отправлено: Aug 23 2015, 20:15
Цитата (Guffy @ Aug 23 2015, 13:06)
Santjaga not flet, hmm, you're getting more interesting. Feel free to share your victories.)


New job tomorrow, higher salary. Enjoy :)
Отправлено: Sep 5 2015, 19:00
I lie not very often, usually when somebody askes me suddenly and I don't have enough time to think over the answer.
Отправлено: Sep 6 2015, 15:08
not that often, but sometimes it's needed to lie eh(
Отправлено: Sep 6 2015, 16:13
DonVishenka, do you think it's better to lie or to tell the truth in all the situations?
Отправлено: Sep 7 2015, 12:13
Цитата (Nancy Black @ Sep 6 2015, 16:13)
DonVishenka, do you think it's better to lie or to tell the truth in all the situations?

absolute integrity is impossible and stupid. sometimes we lie when it's necessary, sometimes we do it for fun. there is a lie for truth.
Отправлено: Sep 8 2015, 15:11
Guffy, do you support white lie, in general?
Отправлено: Dec 7 2015, 00:26
Nancy Black, I do.
Отправлено: Dec 27 2015, 16:25
Sometimes in school, rarely to my parents
Отправлено: Sep 28 2017, 14:49
Lately I had to lie a lot. A friend of mine (she's female) always said to her parents that she's walking with her boyfriend (they broke up like 2 months ago) when we were out together, dining or something. Of course, the boyfriend was absent, but her mother didn't know that. So she sometimes wanted to chat, and talked (to me), and I could only say something like "mm-hmm", "nnn-hhh". Still consider that a lie, even worse so - an imposting crime!
Отправлено: Oct 23 2017, 04:06
Ayden Maedok, this is interesting. Her mom is okay with her going out a boyfriend, but skeptical about her being with you? Why?
Отправлено: Oct 24 2017, 09:02
Паническая атака, she wants to keep things simple. Her family gets involved a little too easily, they have a long story of making everything awkward. Called her and shouted at her for "improper" behaviour, because somehow having a cup of tea with a male friend is too risky for them. But if she's going out with her boyfriend, it's "proper" and "pure', so it's ok. Since it's an established relationship.
Отправлено: Nov 6 2017, 18:48
Sheogorath, okay, I get it, they are overprotective. Sometimes it's a good thing, but I feel like it's also a way to control people. She should be able to make her own decisions and chose who to have coffee with.

How old is she? Your profile states you're 25 - is that true? =) Because if your friend is 25 as well, and she needs a permission from her parents to go out and enjoy a hot beverage with her friends, that's a problem.
Отправлено: Nov 8 2017, 00:18
My friend is 23 ^_^ She's stuck with her parents for now, because she's still working on her medical degree, no room for a part-time job. Also, the thing got awkward through years. Her relatives were less protective 5-7 years ago. They just didn't have the urge to interrupt her life like that back then.

Yes, I'm 25, but, aside from my romantic partner, I don't have friends of same age. Everybody's either older or a little bit younger. Are your friends mostly the same age as you? I mean - exactly the same age, counting 1,5-2 year gap as a difference.
Отправлено: Nov 20 2017, 19:13
Sheogorath, I feel really bad that your friend is being guarded by her parents. It's a great thing that she's pursuing a medical degree, which is an enormous challenge. However, it does often mean the absence of time and ability to find a part-time job. Which means that such students get dependent on their parents financially.

But she's supposed to work an a medical resident eventually, right? And it's paid, is it not?

My friends are all over the place age-wise. :crazy: Thanks to this forum I have friends as young as 12 years of age. I also have lots of older friends in real life, I met those guys at previous work places. My oldest friend is 65-ish years old.
Отправлено: Apr 20 2020, 17:40
I hate lying. Like, to anyone. And don't really know how to do that. Of course, sometimes there is no choice, but honesty is the best policy after all.
Отправлено: Apr 21 2020, 16:31
I lie when I need to be polite. That occurs a lot at work.
Отправлено: May 8 2020, 21:36
At present I try to avoid lying altogether. It gets you nowhere. And it's so exhausting cause you have to remember every lie not to get busted. With my memory its not a problem, but still. And I hate when people lie and then don't remember it. Like when I see that somebody is lying because the person was telling a different story the other day, I remember it, but this person doesn't.
Отправлено: Aug 11 2020, 13:36
I'm lying all the time about little things. But often it's because I just don't wanna bother anyone with my problems, even if I know they can help.
Отправлено: Oct 31 2020, 12:37
I do not like to lie. _/(._.)\_
Отправлено: Jan 3 2021, 00:07
Данетка, no one does. Sometimes we have to though. :styleman:
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